Change.

By Saturday, July 14, 2012 ,

There are times when we refuse to let go of things even when we know we should,even when we know it is time. There is this scary feeling inside which makes us too afraid to take risks. To jump off the cliff and try to fly is really not that of an easy task. It takes courage and a hell lot of courage.


Since forever in my life I have refused to let go of things,I have refused to accept the change because its difficult to look directly at your problems no matter how big or how small they are. But it is not always possible to expect someone to be there right beside you. Sometimes it becomes essential to take a step forward without thinking about what the future has in store.By letting go,I am not giving up on things. I am just giving up my fear which keeps building inside me everytime I think about a change.

Today,I give up all the negative thoughts in my head and start up with a blank white page just like I started this post.I have to change myself,change how I look at things and how I look at people. I know it is not going to be easy but it is a small step towards a better me. And I hope this post always reminds me that.


Hope you all had a good day
Ritika




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14 comments

  1. Anonymous14 July 2012 at 08:33

    Letting go is probably the easiest piece of advice and the hardest action to implement - It is really encouraging to see you write this.
    "Today,I give up all the negative thoughts in my head and start up with a blank white page just like I started this post.I have to change myself,change how I look at things and how I look at people. I know it is not going to be easy but it is a small step towards a better me. And I hope this post always reminds me that." - I so loved reading this :) Sometimes all we need are such reminders !
    Welcome again and I do wish to read you often :)

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    1. Ritika Tiwari16 July 2012 at 12:14

      The only reason I stopped was because I was too afraid to face my problems. But as I said,its time for a change :)

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  2. Prasoon Khare14 July 2012 at 16:04

    Those who take risks are the one's who make big in their lives.. Fear of change could be biggest obstacle in your path to success.. You never know what is there in store for you.. Life is short and time is swift.... don't let the time fly, don't let the negativity affect your decisions..

    Move on and on and njoie the life.. :) :)

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    1. Ritika Tiwari16 July 2012 at 12:15

      Thanks a lot Prasoon,that was very motivating

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  3. Anonymous15 July 2012 at 09:07

    I loved the promise you have made to yourself today. Though it is difficult but it is going to take you only up. We all need these reminders time and again and I am glad that you have said it aloud. :)

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    1. Ritika Tiwari16 July 2012 at 12:17

      The first step is always recognizing that you have a problem,isnt it ?
      So atleast I am one step ahead ;)

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  4. Priya Sreeram16 July 2012 at 15:00

    happy hoots to the thought ritika and hope you surge ahead with all might !

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  5. sm17 July 2012 at 00:40

    yes change is nature of change
    change is first step towards success or failure.

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  6. Dr Roshan Radhakrishnan19 August 2012 at 16:09

    in pretty much the same situation in life, so i can empathise.. cheers to new beginnings

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    1. Ritika Tiwari19 August 2012 at 21:07

      To new beginnings !

      Hope we both succeed in our ways :)

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  7. Unknown23 August 2012 at 15:58

    Good Ritika, its a rally good hobby. If you can express your thoughts by writing, you will feel much lighter. I have also started Blogging, but I am only a beginner, if you want to read my blog here it is travellerkuntal.blogspot.in,

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